My motto to achieving progress is ‘little by little’ ; faith in action no matter how small it is.
However unfit you feel, you can make progress. Dream BIG but don’t let the magnitude of the dream crush you! You just have to break it down into what is manageable for you to do in your current state; physically, emotionally, practically.
The parts of you that stop you working towards a goal are your demons. They are there for a reason! You need to face them, accept them as part of you and hopefully find a way of moving on from them and I guess maturing as a person. They won’t go away until you do.
This does require you to know yourself a bit, but don’t worry! You get to know yourself by trying this process out. The art to training is picking yourself up again when you lose the pace. This happens to people of all levels of fitness and experience. The demons can come back! You think you’ve lost it, everyone else is fitter, you’ve not trained hard enough, it’s all over arrrgghh!
Ok so for example take someone who hasn’t really trained before as an adult feels totally bewildered by exercise and fit people but dreams of having a super fit hot bod! The answer is: it’s all possible. The method is:
Little by little: do one thing each day that’s more than what you did before. No matter how little it is. If it’s more it WILL add up.
This person could try:
1) 10 half press ups a day.
2) or, go outside first thing in the morning and walk/jog for 10 mins.
3) or just take 5 minutes to be still, in a comfortable seated pose or lying down and be aware of your body. Allow your ‘mind’, identity, consciousness to connect with your physicality; muscles, bones, blood, breathing. And that’s it!
Even not managing to do this everyday but just aiming to do it and managing 3 times a week or if you’re lucky 5 (!) will make a difference. If you can focus on the process and allow the goal to be present but not overwhelming, to excite you but not crush you and to fuel the activity but not prevent it, you will begin to see results.
At the heart of this philosophy is patience. It might just be that the process is the point not the product em (or goal). The rhythm of the routine has to take over and for a moment become the product itself; you feel good after doing it, so you begin to do it because you feel good, then all of a sudden you forget about the big goal of hot tight bod and just enjoy doing it, being it!
In doing so you change just a little as a person/personality, your body changes in reflection, your cardio vascular organs begin to work just a little harder, become a little more efficient, your heart and lungs will grow a little too and you feel a little bit better about everything. Then you notice a result (maybe you lose an inch around the waist!) Just a little result. And once you have your hard ‘little’ fact it’s easier to convince yourself to carry on. You’ve got evidence now!
When you reach this stage you’ve grown enough physically and emotionally so that you’re naturally ready for the next stage. A bigger workout!
The beauty of this is you begin to really understand yourself. Inside your gut you know when you’re ready for something. There’s lots of outside social pressures that make you feel wrong for taking your time to do something. No. When it comes to exercise and physical growth you’re allowed to develop in your own time. Build a firm foundation of confidence physically and emotionally.
Your 10 half press ups a day may feel like nothing in comparison to what you think other people are doing. If it’s more than YOU were doing before then it will make a difference to YOU. And when you’ve become at ONE with that routine, you will feel ready to try something more, maybe add 20 crunches a few weeks later or months! Who cares. It’s ok.